They support themselves when it comes to everything.
Job- Check
Money- Check
Car- Check
Living Arrangements- Check
Basically; when it comes to men. No time, no need, no thanks.
HOWEVER, when an independent woman DOES decide to start a relationship, they depend on the man for his affection.
Word to the wise; when an independent woman feels that she is no longer receiving affection/the amount of affection she was receiving at the beggining of the relationship, she no longer has use for the man.
OR...if the independent women decides she no longer needs the mans affection, she goes back to being independent.
Preciously why, men need to man up and learn how to treat a woman/show some love & affection. That's all we need you for anyways!!!! Ha.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
New Poetry....Not bad for 3:30 in the AM
A little new poetry. Took me about twenty minutes. I'm sure it could use some fine-tuning. It's not dedicated to anyone in particular, or about anyone. Maybe just all the dudes and triflin females in my past that didn't deserve me/my friendship. But it's not that serious.
Untitled --> (This one may not make sense to you, but try)
Confusion and bullshit, lies and deception,
Misleading figures pushing me in the wrong directions.
False advertisements and fraudulent faces,
People keeping me from God's good graces.
Propaganda, forgery, high hopes for nothing,
A dozen royal flushes, yet everyone's bluffing.
Illusions and games, mind tricks and cons,
One minute your there and the next, your gone.
Deceit and friends who are all malicious,
Believing in words that turn out fictitious.
I took a left before I went right,
Out of mind, out of thought, out of sight.
The past is the past and the present's untold,
A new route's been taken, time to travel new roads.
Destiny's, prophecies, future uncertain,
All's well once the back mind has closed it's curtains.
Stories unwritten and uncharted land,
New experiences in the palm of my hand.
Learning and growing and living my life,
Leaving the hateful, the negative and trife.
Game Over
My mistakes and my downfalls were somehow your triumphs,Untitled --> (This one may not make sense to you, but try)
Confusion and bullshit, lies and deception,
Misleading figures pushing me in the wrong directions.
False advertisements and fraudulent faces,
People keeping me from God's good graces.
Propaganda, forgery, high hopes for nothing,
A dozen royal flushes, yet everyone's bluffing.
Illusions and games, mind tricks and cons,
One minute your there and the next, your gone.
Deceit and friends who are all malicious,
Believing in words that turn out fictitious.
I took a left before I went right,
Out of mind, out of thought, out of sight.
The past is the past and the present's untold,
A new route's been taken, time to travel new roads.
Destiny's, prophecies, future uncertain,
All's well once the back mind has closed it's curtains.
Stories unwritten and uncharted land,
New experiences in the palm of my hand.
Learning and growing and living my life,
Leaving the hateful, the negative and trife.
Game Over
And despite the love I gave to you it never was enough.
You held me down for way too long, I never thought you would
Take advantage of my kindness just because you could.
Ain't no need for apologies, don't call me just because
You want to see if I'm still searching and looking for your love.
If you haven't heard from me and don't see me for a while,
Know that I've moved on somehow and no longer miss your smile.
And when you realize what you had, and what you threw away,
Remember that you had the choice, YOU left me in dismay.
See now I've found what I really lost; I found MYSELF and I,
I don't need your sorry ways, I found strength in your goodbye.
My life is moving upward and I've found my sanity,
I know in time that you will see that what you're missing now, is me.
A year ago yesterday my dude JayJay passed away.
And I won't ever understand why.
Medically, I guess I understand.
But reality, I don't.
See, JayJay was the epitomy of a cool kid. He was 17. He was playing basketball before school and his heart just stopped and he died. He was healthy, athletic, fun loving, worked for non-profit organizations, cared about the community, lived in an area where you would be thankful that other young men had him as a role model. Because of his race, gender, age, and area that he lived in, people kept asking me if he got shot. He didn't. If he had been shot, that would be another story. It would almost be "explained" in a sense....for lack of better words. But no, he had an un-diagnosed heart condition, and he just died. His funeral was the saddest thing I've ever witnessed. He was truly a good kid. I think about JayJay every day. The fact that someone so lively, so young, and so amazing can just die like that. Out of nowhere. With no signs, pretty much for no reason. That is the day I truly learned not to take anything in life for granted. June 23, 2008. It keeps me up at night sometimes. :/
But the point is, people just don't value what they have. Clearly, something like what happened to JayJay could happen to any of us. But still, people go around making enemies, holding grudges, and judging other people. See, I decided to change my life. No, It didn't happen the day, week or even month that JayJay died. It was gradual. It's a scary thought to know that someones life can end in just a heartbeat, and they could be gone forever with no signs that the end was near. Make sure you do like Alicia Keys says, and whenever your with loved ones, or even respected ones, treat each moment as if you'll never see them again!
I wanted to jot this down so I could store it somewhere. Thanks.
RIP JayJay 1/24/91-6/23/08
Medically, I guess I understand.
But reality, I don't.
See, JayJay was the epitomy of a cool kid. He was 17. He was playing basketball before school and his heart just stopped and he died. He was healthy, athletic, fun loving, worked for non-profit organizations, cared about the community, lived in an area where you would be thankful that other young men had him as a role model. Because of his race, gender, age, and area that he lived in, people kept asking me if he got shot. He didn't. If he had been shot, that would be another story. It would almost be "explained" in a sense....for lack of better words. But no, he had an un-diagnosed heart condition, and he just died. His funeral was the saddest thing I've ever witnessed. He was truly a good kid. I think about JayJay every day. The fact that someone so lively, so young, and so amazing can just die like that. Out of nowhere. With no signs, pretty much for no reason. That is the day I truly learned not to take anything in life for granted. June 23, 2008. It keeps me up at night sometimes. :/
But the point is, people just don't value what they have. Clearly, something like what happened to JayJay could happen to any of us. But still, people go around making enemies, holding grudges, and judging other people. See, I decided to change my life. No, It didn't happen the day, week or even month that JayJay died. It was gradual. It's a scary thought to know that someones life can end in just a heartbeat, and they could be gone forever with no signs that the end was near. Make sure you do like Alicia Keys says, and whenever your with loved ones, or even respected ones, treat each moment as if you'll never see them again!
I wanted to jot this down so I could store it somewhere. Thanks.
RIP JayJay 1/24/91-6/23/08
Monday, May 11, 2009
THROWBACK OF THE WEEK!
3LW feat. Lil Wayne
2002
Lmao, this is after Adrienne and Keeley kicked out the third chick, I remember being mad about it. And check out lil ass bug-eyed looking Lil Wayne. Weezy!
Quick thought....
90 people get the Swine Flu and everybody wants to wear a mask. A million people have AIDS and no one wants to wear a condom.
WORD.
WORD.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
THROWBACK OF THE WEEK!
Boyz II Men
1991
This was my ishhhhhh when I was little.
We even had a dance to it lol.
PS. There was a white kid at the Celtic's game yesterday with a high top fade. Pretty sweet.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
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